Answering Your Relationship Questions

You sent over 60+ relationship questions anonymously. We answered them.

Not the safe ones… the ones you'd ask a friend in a parking lot. Some of them were fun. Most of them were just real.

So for the last week of It's Complicated, Brad and Paige went through them one at a time, out loud, in front of everybody.

For singles: what to do with a season you didn't choose, and what most people get wrong about waiting.

For dating: where the line actually is. Not a feeling. A boundary.

For married: the questions people wrote down but would never say out loud, and a way to think through all of them.

And then one section for everyone, because some things don't belong to a season of life. The thing you keep promising to quit. The thing that was done to you. The parts we usually go quiet on.

We didn't go quiet. What the church avoids, the devil invades — and if we won't answer these, somebody else will.

Six weeks ago we said it: the world's way makes it complicated. God's way makes it clear.

This is what clear sounds like.

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Speaker

Brad & Paige Straarup

Series

It's Complicated

Topic

Biblical Marriage
Christian Dating
God's Love
God's Word
Hidden Sin
Pornography/Lust
premarital sex
sex in the bible
Shame
Unrepented sin
Vulnerability

Scripture

Deuteronomy 22:26
Deuteronomy 22:27
Ruth 1:20
Ruth 2:2
Ruth 2:3
Ruth 2:11
Proverbs 14:12
Proverbs 31:11
Proverbs 31:17
Proverbs 31:22
Proverbs 31:25
Proverbs 31:30
Song of Solomon 2:3
Song of Solomon 2:15
Song of Solomon 4:16
Song of Solomon 5:1
Jeremiah 17:9
Matthew 5:29
John 10:10
John 14:15
Romans 12:2
Romans 12:10
1 Corinthians 6:9
1 Corinthians 6:10
1 Corinthians 6:12
1 Corinthians 6:18
1 Corinthians 7:3
1 Corinthians 7:4
1 Corinthians 7:5
2 Corinthians 6:14
Ephesians 4:15
Ephesians 4:26
Colossians 3:5
1 Timothy 4:12
James 1:19
James 5:16
1 John 3:6
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Date

September 13, 2026
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